Surprise birthday party, wow!

As I stumbled my way into the weekend feeling sick and hacking up a lung from this nasty cold. I thought the weekend would be a no frills, real simple, lay on the couch and get better stretch. Weeks ago Lauren invited a friend from out of town, Brandy, and she told me we would be celebrating her birthday. Naturally, I felt obliged to go along and drag myself off the couch for whatever plans they had lined up for Saturday evening. So as Saturday evening rolled around I thought to myself that I better not go out and just stay home. Lauren insisted that I get it together, get dressed, because we were going to dinner and then bowling. Bowling? I will just go casual, t-shirt and jeans ought to do the trick. As I presented myself as ready, Lauren insisted that I wear a button shirt or something nicer. Huh? That’s where I drew the line. I basically thought we are bowling, I am sick, and this as good as it gets. So we drove north for about 20 minutes to some place called Pinstripes. A quick search revealed that it as an upscale bowling, bocce, and bistro. Bocce? Bistro?

As we pull up to the front, this place looks really nice. When we walk in, I was taken aback. Fancy bar, wine cellar, live jazz & blues band, bowling, bocce, and a really nice restaurant attached. Super upscale. I would of never guessed. Lauren was right, maybe I should of worn a button shirt. As I was just taking the place all in, Lauren insisted that I hurry up and make my way in her direction. Uh, bossy? Very unlike her, but I dismissed it. We walked through a room that connected what looked to be the bocce ball area, and then everyone yelled SURPRISE! Not thinking, but how cool we surprised Brandy. How nice. Milliseconds passed and held on like hours, slow motion set in. Why are some of my family members here? Why are all my friends here? Why is everyone looking at me crazy? It can’t be for me, my birthday is 5 or 6 weeks away. Wait, is it November or December? How much of that NyQuil did I take? Did I go through some time space continuum and miss a month? I mean I’ve been working hard, but I am that out of touch? Panic sets in. Feeling faint. Processing too many crazy questions at once, trying to keep my composure. Holy freaking _explicitive_! It is for me! I can’t believe this is real. Nobody has ever thrown a party solely on my behalf. I am speechless, dumbfounded, and overwhelmed with emotion. My wife has pulled off the biggest secret surprise party ever, and I didn’t have a clue. Not even a little one. Saying that she is awesome would be an understatement. The whole night was surreal, and I figured it would end somehow by me waking up on the couch realizing it was all a dream. There had to be 30 people there, maybe more. Open bar for everyone, great food, and a super delicious birthday cake. I never played or understood bocce, but what a great drinking game! Everyone looked to be having a fantastic time. But wait there’s more. There was a table of birthday presents! Seriously, wow. Lauren and I exchange gifts for our birthdays and my immediate family recognizes it in conjunction with the Christmas holiday but this was too much. What did I do to deserve all of this? I feel so blessed. I have such an amazing and loving wife, such a loving set of family members and friends. I love you Lauren! Thank you all so very much for coming out and celebrating. I am still caught in the moment trying to comprehend it all. My regret is that I was sick and I hope that at any moment there wasn’t a question of how thrilled I was. It will be something I will always remember.

Nov 15, 2009 | Life | 1 Comment »